THE EFFECT OF TEENAGE SEXUAL ACTIVITIES

Teenager are the people at the age they don't want to be told. They become naive and want to  explore more each day. They alway want to experience everything they see happening just not to be left behind either driven by peer pressure or curiosity.

Teenagers are sexually active from adolescence. Making sure they maintain and control their feeling is not an easy task to any parent. Parents should be free and able to talk to their youth about the matter at a safe age when they start adolescence . Talking about sex with your teenage son or daughter should  be a priority in every guardians home. These people are fragile without such conversation they end up messing up so you look bad in communities eyes. 

Now teenagers  falling in love is  very common in this generation. They seem to take it so  easily and lightly not  know what it leads to or maybe"ignoring" the
outcomes.when we talk about love the youth think about sex. And yes that's how  their mind tend to think so fast. Them getting intimate with each other is how  they  define love. With this reasoning they now  have made the rate  of HIV/AIDS has rise among them.They now make sex look like a basic activity with no big issues. They spread it to one another in the name of love since victim do not want to be stigmatized alone. They usually want to  have accomplice  since no  one can talk them through if we still stigmatize them. 

What people are afraid of apart from AIDS is pregnancy. Now with this  generation teenagers  are more afraid of pregnancies than getting infected. The rate of drop outs due to pregnancies had risen until when now the youth got involved with these intimate talks and how  to protect themselves . They are now using pregnancies control and others even doing abortion. Making such decision at their age is what is leading them to  depression. They live with regrets all their lives. The  level at which teenager die due to abortion is alarming. Parents now start to think that talking to them about sex at an a early age us a bad idea. 

Talking about depression on teenager something that should  be worked on. Some tend to think they will have their happily ever after with their lover only to be heart broken. Due to the pressure in the outside world they make loosing their virginity such a flex. Some never want to do it but due to peer pressure they end up doing it. They remain with regrets and some depression kicks in. 

For every guardian or parent out there doing their best  to guide their teenage sons and daughter need an applause. Everybody should  be involved in taking care of them as I said "they are fragile ". Let's make these conversation normal and more understanding. They should  not feel free in that they have been given options,. Let them not make it a normal thing as people in this generation think. We have a future to preserve and without them being safe thief will be no future. Keep in mind you are your brothers keeper so make sure,  either you are related or not we are still a family as a country or continent at large. Let as make our future be worth the preserving  .